Lightbulb is BLAZING NEON now!

[Zoo]

KAW

As the commercial goes ... "Can you hear me now? ... GOOD!"

Now this had me giggling my butt off!

You have offered excellent advice and I will do my darndest to try to keep it in mind. The biggest thing for me to keep in mind though is that when H is in anger mode I just need to stay completely in neutral for awhile...ANY overtures are perceived by him as PUSHING. This is where I need to work on my timing I guess

OK, I have gotten none of my housework done that I had planned nor done my hair...can we say that ZOO is having an EXTREMELY lazy day?

More positives for today:
1. H has called me TWICE today. The first time was to let me know that he arrived OK after a long day of flying and then having to drive another hour to get to where he was going. The second time was because he was lonely and wanted to check and make sure I was doing ok. We actually kept the phone calls pretty short. I have a tendency to try to draw them out for long periods of time and H starts to get exasperated. I just didn't feel that NEED this time around

2. During phone calls H told me ILY several times Who would think that 3 simple words could make a person feel SO good? They do though...they really do!

3. H said he wished he had driven instead of flown so he could have taken me with him! He is bored and missing me already and we could have gone and visited friends who live a few hours from where he is at.

4. H asked where I would be at tomorrow when he gets out of his meeting/class so that he would know when/where to call me again. This is the complete opposite of what H used to do. I would be the one to ask WHEN he was going to call me and would get "I don't know...sometime".

All good things
Zoo