"N" personalities never hit bottom. They have to be exposed for who they are because they feel they are above everyone else. He's exhibiting a lot of the signs, i.e., the letters, the actions, etc., because he feels he is above reproach. He's dangerous to all around him.
He let go of them because they didn't fight as hard has you have. If you were to cease the fight for what is right, he would drop you and your family like a hot potato. It's the personality that's running the show.
You have every right to be worried, but there's nothing you can do for you d, but pray that she'll find a way to escape him. He knows that she's the weak link right now and will do everything in his power to control and manipulate her. I would dearly love to know how he's gotten away with what he has for so long. Who is he paying off?
For now, keep the prayers coming. He's unraveling just a little bit and they do make mistakes when they think that are high and mighty. I'm praying that he'll make one mistake too many and have to leave you and the kids alone.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
