Since you are mainly posting over here now, ask 25yearsmlc for her advice since she is a family law attorney in California. I think somehow you are getting screwed and she will tell you that. You really should fire your L and hire a better one. Talk to her first though. Don't be an idiot in this as I know you are smarter than this.
Kevin
I'm not mainly posting here. We're just on a subject that is particularly relevant to me right now. My thread is still where I mainly post. I would love it if 25 were to chime in. I may be getting screwed, but the law is the law. The best lawyer there is can't supercede State Law. Incidentally, my lawyer is known in this part of the state as a ferocious litigator. I'm not an idiot. But neither I, nor my lawyer, have the power to override State Law.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
