July wife dropped bomb, asked me to leave home. She has the children and the responsibilities of the home.
I have the children certain nights of the wk and wkend.
I have not fought yet, but as I have lightened up on trying to control some things, MLC has opened up time with kids.
I could have been the LBS spouse,she wanted OUT! Had looked at apartments and I said "I am not leaving you, I am giving you the space you need, the children need their mother."
Because of that I immediately became reactionary to everything, because I handed control to a MLC'er.
