The MLC'er sees you as a stalker, should really be in the top ten for a recipe of success.

I looked thru the resources and stuff and I didn't see it referenced, but Knowing that has really helped me stay the heck out of the way.

I know if I saw that in the recipe, that would've helped me to get out of any control situation.

Drop all contact with the MLC'er should be number 2.

Then the must read should be the resources.