I saw that post and i have the book Art of War, read it years ago.
"Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win."
I was going about things wrong without having all the facts of an MLC'er. In my mind I already know the outcome, it's just now staying out of the way for someone else to come to me.
Funny you used this quote, I was using this and the poem Battle of the Light Brigade when all this started in June for me.
