I saw your post on another page about "sacrificing". In my opinion that is the wrong mentality. By sacrificing you are giving up for the better good. Being a sacrifice is also a sign of weakness and lack of confidence to the fairer sex.
Your mentality is better suited to be..."I am strong and I am standing up for the commitments I have made, for the welfare of my family, and for myself". Be strong...not a sacrifice. Think about it for a few...there is a huge difference.
Sacrifices jump off the cliff in hopes that their actions will bring good. Strong people face the pain of climbing down the cliff to put the pieces back together again.
