This might help..what would of happened if you were having the crisis.
Your wife would be feeling all the emotions and craziness you are right?
We're not suffering, we're sacrificing for our spouses.
That could be the meaning of all this, that's my meaning, I am sacrificing for my wife, she has unresolved issues from when I wasn't there early in our relationship. If this is what she needs to get over it.
Let her Take that time.
You and I are in this way too early, let's do our homework fix ourselves and quit speeding things up. Look at what the others have gone thru and going thru.
We're ALL making a sacrifice for someone we cared deeply about at some point D'd, married, whatever it is going to be will be recognized later.
In the mean time. Let's become what we need to become.
