Hey K.. why did you decline the invitation? Do you resent him asking you to do family things, you want him to invite you say to dinner, or a weekend in Venice?? Could you say, no I dont want to play happy families, if you wanted to wine and dine me instead, alone, just me and you, I would have said yes????
Just wondering if you cant just start communicating whats really going on to him, how you feel, why you said no, instead of keeping it inside and feeling miserable AND not moving forwards with D either. Unless you just literally didnt want to go...?
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Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread