Let me add my congrats and well wishes, Dia. Very happy to see the vast progress you've made.

You're right. Reconciling is not going to be a bed of roses. But you've come so far, and I hope you'll continue to share your experiences.

Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.