You know you are NOT going to call your wife while in SF and LA...right? No texting. No calls. Call the children - yes. But you are dark and out of pocket on this trip. Don't take her calls. Only listen to her voice mail and read her texts/emails to make sure the kids are ok. At most, to answer a text, a simple "K" or "Busy...catch up w/u later."
Shop for some new duds to wear, too. In fact, have something new on TODAY when you see her. If she comments, "Oh yeah...this? I did some shopping to get ready for my trip to California." Which is honest. But the way she'll read it will give her...pause. Trust me. Coach did this kind of thing. He'd always been a well dressed man, but all of a sudden, when I left, his wardrobe was UPDATED and a little more youthful than it had been. You bet I noticed. Liked it. Wondered about it. 'Nuff said
Go shopping, sir! Cheers ~~~ Greek
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