So later on H came by to drop something off for S on his way home from work. He only stayed for 10 mins, chatting with kids and I in the garage where we were still sorting. I looked like a wreck!!!! Well, at least he could see that my reply text re cleaning the garage was true. I was definitely in 'hands on' cleaning mode. There was a bit of awkward silence between us... the kids were there as well. I just couldn't think of too much to say.