Could be worse - she could move out. She could hit you with D papers. Just remember how far people on this board have come from way more separation with their spouses.
She HAS been making moves toward you. It IS WORKING. And, if you push, you push her away. You won't get what you want that way. And yes, it always hurts to feel rejected and ignored. But she's still there isn't she?
My H is in the other room right now denying my existence. It kills me. But I tell myself - he's here.
You are great at telling others about how to detach. time for you to detach yourself - for the thousandth time - and try to get to a point where what she is or isn't doing doesn't affect your mood. Remember -= be like water!!!!
PMA - you are in a beautiful place, on vacation, with happy childen and your wife is still in the same suite with you.
I can't afford a vacation - haven't for years - my H sleeps somewhere else, and it's raining. And I still have hope. So look at what you do have, not the snail's pace momentum. You don't want to loose what you have.
