I'm so glad that you're having your L go through the courts and then have copies sent to his lawyers.
Not my place , I know..,but this guy is a real 'trick'..just change the first letter of the word.
Your kids are so lucky to have you, you know that? And you're right...they will in time see everything clearly...it will hurt them when they do, but it will also enable them NOT to let him manipulate and degrade them anymore, and they will be able to get out from underneath his toxic spell.
Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible