Hey Zoo...look at this as something to LEARN from!!!

One thing that I did consistently that CJ HATED was to start the day with a list of "to do's" or bring up possibly contentious issues before the guy had a chance to get out of bed!

I am VERY conscientious of this now, it's not such a big thing to wait a while, is it? I know how YOU felt though, you'd waited already, wanted to get the issue "out there".

Personally, I begin problem solving and planning before my feet hit the floor...others, like CJ and your H, find this a sure way to start a day on a sour note! ..We MUST respect this.

Now, how about if, instead of EXPECTING your H to be PO'd for the rest of the weekend, you act "As if" this weren't such a big deal?

How about a "You know, my timing REALLY sucked this morning, I'm so sorry for starting your day off like that...anything we can do so it ends better????"

Ta ta for now

Shiny