I know this hurts and sucks but you are doing EXACTLY what you should be doing. Um, and your other options are what anyhow? Curling up in the fetal position? ---super fun and super attractive...Scream and yell at her and show her ALL your pain and anger?? ALso super fun for you and super attractive AND super effective...
It all goes back to your present path...detaching, GAL for you.
Honestly looking at the bright side, as sappy as it sounds, IS A GOOD thing to do. Beats the alternatives and you are being watched by the kids. Remember that. Someday they'll face their own "poop" and you need to show them that your pain is deep BUT not fatal, and it is NOT eternal. We all get hurt but those of us who are strong and willing ALSO HEAL....show them that this is so...make it so for you.
Sending hugs your way, big time. Now go GAL and get out of her blast zone... Step back, get some popcorn and watch the MLC/WAS/WTH? (my new name for whatever this poop is) from the sidelines as the parade goes by.
This too, shall pass. ((( j )))
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