You're doing a great job. Hang in there...your W just needs more time. Don't let things frustrate you at this point. Your wife, just like mine, is still on the fence and doesn't know what she wants. Keep showing her what a great person you have become. I'm in the same boat...and it sucks.
It may be time for your own weekend getaway. Call it "GIMA time." Schedule a golfing trip with your buddies. You deserve it.
-LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009
