Thank you for your perspective. I'm sorry that your H is not communicating........ at least verbally, with you. Is there any positive non-verbal communication? Don't discount the non-verbal communication. My H didn't begin communicating with me much until I left the job that he despised 5 months after the bomb. I suppose my previous job (60 hr/wk) was my OM in a way. Are there any major 180s you can do to get your H to begin letting down his defenses? The job change was a MAJOR change for me. It took me about 8 weeks for me to make this decision.
Thanks for your good wishes for my sitch.I am praying for my H everyday.
