That's positive Rabbit and I like that you can enjoy your space now as 'you time'!
I have learned to love my evening routine, after 7pm, and I almost dread anything now spoiling my 'me time'!!
At least your H recognised that he does not want to use your home as a hotel and that's a good step forward. Some would just not care. Yes, you turn up at the funeral looking understated but F A B U L O U S and turn some heads - mostly H's!! Maybe that will make him scurry along a bit!
You are doing so well and yet I think that your H almost expects that you will come to him now. I would certainly do a 180 on that, remain nc until Wednesday at the funeral and then be mysterious when you do talk - for you shall.
I will be waiting to hear all about it!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
