Originally Posted By: billclay18
Loving someone enough to set them free...I agree completely. But other than your children and your parents, you should love no one unconditionally. To do so shows weakness and lack of self respect.

Actually not. It shows the ultimate in strength and is necessary for healing. Regardless of the outcome in my personal sitch I'm striving to reach this goal. The book Mars and Venus Starting Over by John Gray does a good job of covering this. I highly recommend it for anyone who needs to heal from a loss of love.


AKA: "Ben the school teacher"
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Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20
Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08
My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09
W w/OM 6/09-11/09

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