True Love or True Fog? Changing Forums

[Silver Fox]

"I'm gonna wash that man right outta my hair and send him on his way".

Which begs the question - how do I send him on his way when he's already gone? Going on 5 months now. Well last year we went 7 months with NC.

I like what someone said on another thread - "I'm done with my H, he just doesn't know it yet". I feel the same way. If he ever bothers to call or show up again he will get a whole new vibe from me.

No word from my L either. I keep thinking maybe this week - then the week is gone. I'll have to call L soon though. The retirement money we cashed over the summer is almost gone and I will need H's half of the mortgage and joint credit bills by the end of November.

Which begs more questions: Does H have a job? Will he be able to pay his half of OUR bills? Can he pay for a D? Are he and Catbitch still going strong? And finally - WHAT THE HELL IS HE THINKING?