Thanks, and yeah your wife has some great advice. The hardest thing in all this is to keep my spirits up, but I know how much better I feel and how much brighter things are when I do. And my ex is much happier around me when I'm cheerful. If I can keep a PMA I know I can get through this no matter what the outcome with my ex winds up being. And, I think I'll be a better man for all this.
Ron
M: 47 W: 50 D: 19 S: 16 Grandson: 21 months (now officially our son) Married: 10/2/89 Divorced: 7/31/09 XW moved back home 11/12 Re-married 5/25/10