I don't want to date. I'll have trust issues for awhile. But I need to be more social and I will be focusing on that. I have no intention of making a match with anyone, just getting out of the shell I built during the M. If something happens it won't be because I'm looking for it. But then again, I definitely wasn't looking for love when I met my W!

I am open to reconciliation but on very limited terms. No moving back, at least until I have some trust back. But I'm not counting on that or even putting much hope into it.

Last edited by M A Holm; 10/11/09 12:03 AM.
~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)