It is good to recognize that you are cycling. And I am starting to see that you realize that your life will continue on if you get divorced. That is one of the advantages to the divorce busting - it can help to save your marriage, but it also takes the final sting away if it does end.
My friend had told me shortly after my bomb that the emotional pain would only get worse. But because of MWD's books and the advice and 2*4's on these forums, it was not to bad of a hurt when I realized that my marriage could not be saved. I knew that there would be much better days ahead and that I could once again find someone to love in addition to my children.
I know that I dont have to tell you to be cautious on match.com. But as a reminder, you probably should ignore responding to guys without pictures or ones who want to meet right away. Hey, I may have to go check out your match.com entry you have for spelling errors or anything else that might attract too many losers. But dont worry, I wont wink at you since you are way too young for me and live way too far away. Maybe you could look at my entry for anything that might be a turn off. One thing I know that women dont want to see are shirtless guys holding their dead fish/animals while on their motorized toy. But recently, I have had a very interesting lady contact me who is showing interest in old Kerry. We have exchanged a lot of emails and talked last night a bit - maybe even meet tomorrow.
