Young couple in need of help

[TooLateForMe]

Try not to read too much into things like that. I've done that and it's meaningless. You get worked up over wording and forget about the bigger picture.

My advice is to do something similar and to keep your communication w/ spouse short. That may seem manipulative but for me it's the opposite. You're less likely to say anything you'll regret, make her feel pressured. It does have the added benefit of making her wonder about you. Be simple and direct and let her know where you stand.