Sandi, good food for thought. I did tell her thursday that i thought the S appeared to be a good thing. I did not go so far as to talk about dating. Need to think about that one. Shoot, I dont even know where I would find a date. Its been so long. But I get the point, its not actually doing it, but haveing W think I am that may make her think about things. She did call last night and ask if I had gone out. i said yes,but gave her no more details. A tiny step in that direction.
Tristan, took your advice and hit the trail in the rain and fog. Made it to the top of the mountain (about 4500' elevation) Will probably pay for it tomorrow in the legs, but great time to destress and enjoy peace and quiet.
Will see W again tomorrow night and then off to the West coast for 4 days of work. Can't beat SF and LA. I am looking forward to the drive between the two and enjoying the Pacific ocean from the PCH. Then I get the kids for the next week. YEH!!!! That gets me pumped.
My S(12) has a cross country meet on Saturday. I have made sure that W knows about it, but she is not committing to attending. guess she needs to see if her son or her social calendar is more important. Ok, ouch, that was a low blow. But she missed the last one because she went out of town. Hope she makes the right choice, but even if she doesn't, I will make s12 feel like a King. But that's a week away An eternity in WAW time. Who knows what will happen between now and then.
Well off to have a few beers and watch some college Football. More later tonight.
ME 41, Her 41 M 18.5 years T 19.5 years s - 12, 10 Bomb 7/12/09 Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09 She moved out 10/1/09 - present
