Well Mish, if it helps at all, when I get that way from time to time, I just think "hey, that's cool, XW's OM is ugly and disgusting" and to that I say "XW must be laying there thinking to herself wanting to know why the hell she's with this neanderthal when she threw the prize in me away". I mean, I may not be on the cover of GQ anytime soon, but with the right clothes and photographer, I could. OM on the hand, I don't even think they'd put on the cover of "Creepshow".
Y'all are so funny! I often think well I got help with my depression/no longer depressed, but OW's always gonna be a HO! (Or skank if you prefer).
Mish, it is hard to go on the Newcomers! All that raw pain reminds me of how I was 24/7 when I got here. But I feel like I want to pay back a little sometimes when I can do it, like those that helped me when I first got here. But yeah, sometimes I think (when I read of some newcomer who's WAS has cheated 5 or 6 times--what the heck are you thinking, run, LBS, run!!! I never say it though...