Thanks for stopping by Bill and Gabi !

Bill- I know what you mean about looking to the R for reassurance and trying to break that habit. I still catch myself doing the same thing. It would probably help me more if I hade more personal interaction with people but that is something that is difficult for me to do being stuck out here in the boonies with no transportation. I have a great deal of time to myself so what I usually do to prevent myself looking to H for constant reassurance for everything is have an imaginary conversation with him while he is gone. It works surprisingly well for me and I tend to get the answers I want LOL! Your right though...time and patience are big keys and yep, DB'ing has to become a way of life

Gabi- I use to be a procrastinator too...unfortunately H is a bigger procratinator then I am and I felt it just wouldn't do to have two in the same house so I started making myself get off my butt and doing things I do indulge once in awhile though...sometimes I only do housework every other day instead of every day...WOOHOO!!

I'm really tired so I will write more tomorrow...have a lot of things I need to get down before I forget them...GOOD things too!

~grin~
Zoo

"If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm." - Mahatma Gandhi