Yes...she will have setbacks....and I don't think she will ever "forget" that OM. I, to this day, think of the OM just about every day. I'm sorry that doesn't help much to know that. But, when you let another person in your heart it just doesn't go away. Even though I know that I wouldn't have been totally happy with the OM, and I know I am happier now with my H, it is still there and I'm wondering if it will ever go away. When I become subdued (unlike you, my H doesn't notice those times because he doesn't know details like you) it is more a remembering/missing those fantasy times kind of thing. Like a alcoholic remembering the booze high, etc. It doesn't mean I don't love my H as much...more of a remembering and/or trying to process it. I, personally, try NOT to think too long because as much as I'd like to think that if I think about it enough it will work itself out, it doesn't work out that way...instead, I find myself dwelling on it. I need to just enjoy my life and my husband and try to stop those thoughts.
