I honestly think she could go the rest of her life and not want or nedd sex. Which is troubling. B/c I (a) can't and (b) won't.
If what you say is true, that you can't and won't go without sex the rest of your life. Then it's time to stop barking up the wrong tree. She told you her truth. You will go through the rest of your life without sex if you continue to live in denial. She's happy as a clam with the current relationship. No waves. Pleasant living together, financial support, no sex. If that's not what you want for the rest of your life, then you need to make some new plans.
