Wow, Zoo, your thread is truly inspirational and gives me a lot of hope. I'm so busy with life that it isn't until I collapse in bed that I can reflect on what I'm doing. I really pay attention to how I interact with people. I feel like the biggest way I have changed is that I'm not looking to my H to provide me with individual happiness. I am confident in myself and my abilities.

One thing I'm working on is my tendency to procrastinate. Being a student this is not an asset and leads to some late nights. I think the reason why I have a hard time changing this is that it has never affected my grades or work. I still have an A average I just always have that feeling if I wouldn't put things off I could do better personally.

Anyway sorry to ramble on your thread, I wanted to stop by and say Hi and congrats for being in piecing. I think my H might have an idea about this site as he could see it in the history file. I haven't said anything that I wouldn't want him to see as I feel like I can be honest with him, I just am not sure he'd understand my need for this BB.

Anyway

Blessings
G