Thanks gang! I suppose as long as I`m checking in here it means on some level I haven`t given up.
I`m hoping for a marriage to rise out of the ashes-DESPITE what my therapist, mediator and family say. Oh and H too. He`s done with this.
"I think that he has to leave in order to find out that you are not the source of his anger. I don't know that he will figure that out, even then, but as long as he is there, I don't think things are going to get any better."
My dear gf told me that a year ago Jeff. H really needs to go the whole way this time.And that`s hard for both of us. Both of us have trouble letting go-though we`re both holding on to different things.
Yup, keeping centred on ME and the kids as much as poss. Had a fab night out last night with work colleagues. Home in the wee hours of the morning and H actually offered his pain killers for my splitting headache this am.
