Looks like I might soon be LBS...newcomer here

[brownidmom]

H left this morning to go to a wedding in DC for a friend of his and didn't invite me. No, I'm not angry. Last night when he confirmed that he was going, I said, "So your friend invited us and you uninvited me?" I made absolutely sure that my tone showed no negativity. H:" You weren't invited." Me:" Yes, I was. The only reason I know about the wedding is because the invitation read "Mr. and Mrs. BIM", which is why I opened it in the first place.

This morning, I got up and showered, got the boys ready, left the GPS for H, and left. We ran some errands and went to lunch with a friend of mine. At lunch, phone rang. H had some questinos about GPS. I am not technically savvy at all and I can use it without instructions, but he had some questions. Ah, well. Lunch was good. We are at home relaxing for a while. We will do some chores around the house and then go to a double feature Toy Story/Toy Story II tonight.

H won't be home tomorrow either apparently. Boys and I will ride bikes, I'll do some work in the yard while they play, etc.

BTW, I didn't know H was going to be gone all weekend until Thursday when I mentioned being off on Monday, to which he responded, " I won't be home this weekend." Would he have told me if I hadn't mentioned it, or would he have just left?

Also, I received insurance statement this week. H's hospitalization a couple of weeks ago included $25K in diagnostic testing and I still don't have any idea what they found/ what they ruled out. H refuses to talk about it.

Working on detaching is the best thing I can do right now. Pretend stuff doesn't bother me even when it does until it becomes second nature.