Don't. I know how you feel and there's nothing to convince you it's a bad idea. Fight those urges to call because you only want to fill an emotional void.
I'm used to telling my W everything. She doesn't get that anymore and doesn't deserve it. My intimacy and feelings are for people that want them. If your W doesn't IT'S HER LOSS. Realize you have a lot to give but you lose too much by giving it to anyone who doesn't want it.
Phone a friend instead. Anything else.
I know those intense feelings and there's no magic cure. The weird thing is that I had a split before the one I'm going through now. She wanted me back and I went. Those intense feelings don't go away just because she's talking to you or wants you back. You have to deal with them and you're better off doing that on your own.
Just find something else to do.
Last edited by M A Holm; 10/10/0906:41 PM.
~Mark
Me: 38 W: 34 Together: 9yrs 1st M: may '03 1st D: april '08 1st bomb: june '08 remarried: oct '08 2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)
