Wife says she wants me to move on

[brknheart]

I understand john210, ive always been an impatient person, thats one of my weaknesses. I love to fix things, computers, mechanical, and household stuff. My first response is "I need to fix this." I know I have no control over this. One of the things my W was upset about was earlier this year I was laid off, couldnt find a job, and became very depressed. I didnt do anything for months and didnt seek help until 3-4 mths of doing nothing. She wasn't upset about me getting laid off or not finding a job, it was the fact I had a ton of stuff to do around the house I could have done and I didn't do it. This isnt the reason for the separation/divorce, but it did play a factor in it. She already decided she wants to buy my half of the house when we get a divorce, I plan on moving to another city. Im debating on whether to start doing those things I didnt do before, but Im worried that she is going to get upset and say "You are only doing this to try to change my mind." I could sure use some things to get my mind off of the situation, and doing these things would help with that. Its still my house but then again I dont want to push her further away. Am I damned if I do, damned if I dont?