And then I got the "I was going to give you a chance, but boy oh boy, not now. You just wrecked any chance we had".
I never had an OM W to inform, but I had stupidly communicated with W's brother (who told her mom). I heard the "We are Done" spew from W the next day. And she also said that she had planned to do things as a family just that very day, but now I had "destroyed her life and she was going out clubbing to F herself up and then live out on the street. Strangely, I had no pity for her at the time and thought it a bit humorous on how she could get so darn angry.
Dont believe anything your W says when she is in a rage. Just make sure there are no guns, knives or baseball bats nearby.