Trying to save my M. W not really trying though.

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She's scared $hitless of you contacting the OM's wife and the OM dumping her immediately to work on his own marriage.

She got busted. She has already contacted him, no doubt. He told her we better cool it for a while until this blows over, I dont want my wife to find out just yet, I need to get my finances in order so we can be together. When in fact he probably showed up at home with flowers and took his wife out to dinner.

Men and women react differently to getting busted in these situations. 1st thing crossing a man's mind is OMG I am gonna have to pay alimony and child support. Women seems to react with anger.

Might be time to contact the OM's wife and kill this affair. before the go underground and you have a hard time catching them again.

I already contacted OM's W...sent her an IM on Facebook yesterday morning, explaining everything I know about the A & that I thought she had the right to know. I haven't heard back from OM's W & don't know if I will...but something must've gone down because OM is not longer on my W's Facebook friends list.
Perhaps OM's W is laying down the law. Anyway, I'm waiting for the nuclear fallout when OM contacts my W to tell her what I did. I'm ready!