Rabbit,

Thanks for the thumbnail sketch of your sitch. I have been reading on your thread today. Please don't be discouraged. I agree with Nell and Dia. H is a bit scared. Just keep showing him the new and improved Rabbit. You have made incredible progress.

In my sitch, my H's sister will be visiting from out of state next weekend (she normally visits her brother and mother here (father passed away several years ago) about twice a year. She e-mailed me to ask me for lunch when she visits. We haven't communicated much since the bomb. She wanted to keep out of the situation, I presume so as not to interfere, but perhaps with D-day approaching she thought it was time to make contact.

Can anyone who has had experience with this type of situation offer advice?

GAG