Originally Posted By: etrain
I think she was "in shock" on Thursday night. Last night, I fully expected her to come up with a reason...any reason...to get out of the house. But she stayed home, cleaned, did laundry, paid bills, etc. Getting organized before she moves out, perhaps.


She's scared $hitless of you contacting the OM's wife and the OM dumping her immediately to work on his own marriage.

She got busted. She has already contacted him, no doubt. He told her we better cool it for a while until this blows over, I dont want my wife to find out just yet, I need to get my finances in order so we can be together. When in fact he probably showed up at home with flowers and took his wife out to dinner.

Men and women react differently to getting busted in these situations. 1st thing crossing a man's mind is OMG I am gonna have to pay alimony and child support. Women seems to react with anger.

Might be time to contact the OM's wife and kill this affair. before the go underground and you have a hard time catching them again.