After 30 Years!

[Dia]

I agree w/Nell. Slow Down! He's scared. Enjoy your victories because you've had some wonderful ones, but be careful of appearing to 'push'.

If he tells you "No" about something, don't let him see that it hurts you or bothers you. Try to be breezy and nonchalant about it. "Ok, thanks for letting me know. I'll be fine on my own."

When he sees that you're hurt or upset, it replays all of the old tapes for him about how you're hard to please, needy, demanding or whatever it is he's picked to fixate on about you.

Slow and steady - and maybe even GAL separately a bit more.