Last night I come home from going to a football game with a friend. I asked W about watching her friends kids. W returned them 25 miles to friends Ex's house. Who has asked my wife out on a date. She initially denied that he did and still maintains this. I object and said I really don't like this and she proceads to tell me that nothing can happen with his wife and child there. Also I said that I didn't appreciate that she has been out till 3:30 in the morning 3 times in the last two weeks and what if one of the kids wakes up and needs her. She told me I was trying to manipulate her and if she wanted to stay out until 6 am she would.
Well the argument changes to why I won't divorce her and the only thing she wants from me ia a divorce and I won't take care of it. I tell her if she wants a divorce than go for it. She tells me how unfair it is that she has put up with so much and I won't give her what she wants. She also states that the only reason she is hear is for financial reasons. Also why havn't I painted more so we can put the house up for sale. I told her to call the realtor if thats what she wants to do.
Mind you 10 hrs before she comes into my office with just a towel wrapped around herself and thanks me for something I did.
I will def give her space today. She leaves on thursday for an out of town trip with her girlfriends. Am I setting boundries properly?
H:37 W:34 D11,S8,S6 Together 19 years M:10 Bomb:4/09
