Well....I think I am in shock still...
OK, so let me start from Thursday...I didn't call him back..he was worried...and I texted him...he texted back and I just let it be....then he calls friday.........well, I didn't text or return the call until now...

He said he misses me. He said he is ready to admit that he most definately is in mid-life crisis bc he made alot of changes very quickly.

He said he would like to call back tonight and maybe we can watch SNL together....

What the hell is going on???? Am I so freaking available to him that NOT answering 2 calls has resulted in this??

He says that by the end of next year he is hoping to be financially in a better place so that "if" he gets back together with me, we don't have as much stress as we have had previously in our marriage.

Who is this person???? Is this real?? I think this is an MLCer maybe having a lucid moment....who really knows how long this will last.

Honestly I hung up and thought, well, big deal what does this really mean? In the big picture...nothing..but, I guess it is at least a positive step. I really wasn't expecting anything like this...now what?


Me: 35 , H - 38
M: 3.5 yrs
R: 8 yrs
Separated: 4/28/09
Divorced: 9/11/09