Brkn, This site is full of people who are or have been in your sitch. You will find that some opinions differ slightly but that there is a comman theme on what to do. I fell you are searching for answers...to get a road map to make your wife wake up and smell the coffee. I am afraid there is no miracle cure. Again, at the risk of repeating myself, stop being available. Start getting a life...hunker down becasue this will be a long battle. She wants to be single....well let her be. Because at the end of the day, nothing you do or say right now will get her to come running back. What you do or say right now may push her even further away however. Sorry Brkn, just being realistic. Start lsitening to what the folks on this site are saying...you probably think you and your wife are different than the rest of us but you are not. Good luck!
