I hear what you're saying. However, there's a huge range between this:
Originally Posted By: aflowergurlie
. . . me crying, pleading, being bitchy and full of attitude, isolating myself, trying to make him feel guilty, talk sense into him...etc, etc, etc.
and him doing whatever the hell he wants, no matter how rude or disrespectful.
Can't you find some reasonable middle ground here? I'd be OK with:
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So a 180 for me was to stop giving it any attention at all and act as if I could care less about his phone activities now, which I feel I have been doing extremely well with.
. . . if it wasn't causing you to:
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That always makes me sad/jealous, when I have to hear him laugh in the other room when he is on phone or texting with OW.
I presume you are in a communal property state? If so, the house is half yours, and even if technically it's not, there are still basic social norms of decency here.
