Mornin' All, You ladies HAVE been busy. What great thoughts and ideas. I love the part about you all did something unexpected. Don't you find that DB gives you the permission to try something new? Otherwise I think we would be stuck in our same MOs and having even bigger headaches from beating our heads against the wall. Was it Shiny Bear who sd that the thing that turned her H around was that he realized that she might not always be around? That's how mine worked as well-I think. I've never really been told what it was but when my EA came out H did a major 180! You may not repsect the way I did it but try and understand that everyone's journey is different. I don't have my own thread so I may be considered somewhat of a troll but nobody's ever sd that about me that I know of. If you read Josa or GParker's threads you'll see I sorta got to the end of my rope and "fell" into an EA with someone. H and I haven't looked back since but I still analyze the "Troubles" (that's what I call my dark days re:daze). What did I had to dump? Angry outbursts. I was hell on wheels and I have ditched them for sure. H and me never fight anymore. I was terrible but that girl is gone for good, Praise the Lord! It was easy to give that up, too. That went away even before I found DB. It was weird, I didn't even consciously say this is a problem and I need to work on it. I just let it float away. Odd that I can't explain it better but I'm rambling anyway. Will close for now and have a great day!
