Wife says she wants me to move on

[brknheart]

Last night was the first time I felt truly mad at her. She wants to be a single woman, do what she wants (like a rebellious teenager), go out to the night clubs, etc. Just the other day she said that its hard for woman in their 30s to find a good guy, that its a dating puddle vs a dating pool (her friend has been having a hard time finding someone). I started thinking about myself, sure Im not the perfect person (nobody is) but I know Im a good person, husband, lover, etc. Why does she just want to give up 11 years just because the last 6-8 mths have been hard on both of us. What kind of guy does she think she will meet at a night club (no offense to those who goto night clubs), when she has a guy who loves her and would do anything for her. So my question is, how should I act around her now. Since this happen, Ive been to nice like others have said. Now that I have the feeling in me, I feel I have my own barrier up in front of me. I dont want to be mean to her of course, but I want her to know that she can lose me forever, im not going to be here anymore if we get a divorce. Im not going to be there for her like I have been the past 11 years. Im going to move on with my life. Just the other day she said if we lived in the same town, we may she each other dating other people. She would hate to see me with someone else, I feel the same way to her of course. I feel like getting as far away from her as possible if the divorce goes through...

btw, im on pg 77 of DR. So far most of the stories have been about people who are still together but on the brink of divorce. Im hoping there is a situation like mine in there, where the woman left and doesnt want to save the marriage.