so i got a letter in the mail from the district attorney regarding the mistress. she is scheduled for a second court date in november! might go to trial!

i have to say, i want the whole thing to go away. i dont want to keep reliving it. i received another copy of an order of protection and this one didnt have my son's name on it.

i went crazy, called the DA and wouldnt let them off the phone until the issue was resolved. it turns out i filed 2 separate charges, there are 2 cases against her? no clue i did that...

so i have 2 orders in effect, i was so nervous that they reversed the one with my son but they didnt.

ugh, i was crying on the phone so upset! the DA asked me what i wanted to see happen to her. i have to be honest, at that point, all i cared about was keeping her away from my son and myself. so i simply said, i just want an order of protection to ensure she is to stay away from my son and me.

i could have said i want her in real trouble, i could have been meaner, but i wasnt.

i told my side of the story, questioning why she felt the need to harass me when she already had my husband living with her.

drama. i dont need it. i dont want to hear about her or from her. i want to move on!

but wow, between h and the divorce stuff that he needs to gather within a matter of days and her with the trial and retaining her own attorney, cant be too happy these days in paradise. or in disney world lol...


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09