Seeking thanks for the insight. The in house is b/c in our area housing is so expensive. Also if kids are involved you have to wait a year before D. Separation is not regognized in our area. In house is a D but not final. Everything is done just like a D. Divide up kid visitation, money, support etc. But you live under 1 roof. Have to be out of house when schedule kids time comes. Three witnesses to us living seperate with no sex or physical contact. And the list of insanity goes on. Scheduled time with your kids inside your own house!!!! No family meals. Paying an allowence to her while she is living under the same roof.
We can't afford mortgage and apartment. I know I can't survive an in house for yr. I have lived it for 3 months now and it sucks. And none of this time counts officially towards the seperation. She won't leave nor will I.
