Thanks guys. I was angry last night but didn't let it show.
@Hope4us, no, you weren't too rough. Trust me, I can take it after all this stuff. And you are right. The voice in my head told me the same as I was angry last night.
@Lotus, I agree with you. My W is going through early menopause and when she dropped the bomb, she said point blank, she does not want sex with anyone. And yeas, we haven't had sex since before the bomb, which was in April. Which is NOT fun. I honestly think she could go the rest of her life and not want or nedd sex. Which is troubling. B/c I (a) can't and (b) won't.
Ok, so I will, and have, take deep breaths. Now, to get back to work. I'm having fun with or without her.
