Puppy and WDID. Thank you. Of course, I know you're right.
I've just been letting the positive's mess with my patience. WDID, I don't think she'd do something like this again, but I thought that before. And once you're burned, it takes a long time to let those feelings go. I just need to keep remembering it's only been a month and a half since she finally admitted she loved me and always had. And just because she came to that realization doesn't mean she still won't have set backs.
Case in point. Last night we went out to "our" bar/grill for dinner and a couple of drinks. We were sitting at the bar, having a great time, talking with some of the regulars and "our" barmaid and BAM, up pops an advertisement on ESPN for the Florida/LSU game tonight. OM was a huge LSU fan. Took W to an LSU/Kentucky game on one of her weekend trips to see him. And W's mood CHANGED. Don't get me wrong. She was still fine. But I could tell it affected her. I'm sure it was a huge trigger for her. The rest of the night she was pretty subdued.
We went to bed and I've gotten smart enough in this mess to know when not to push things so I just went to sleep.
Don't get me wrong, it really bothered me. Still does. That the sitch can still have that kind of hold on her a year and a half after it ended.
It's another yucky day here. Going to run to the store and pick up a few home improvement things, go out to breakfast by myself and then come home and work in the house. Then our beloved Buckeyes at 3:30. The real test will be at 8:00 when there's a choice between Fla/LSU and Mich/Iowa and which game we watch. I sure hope she's out of her funk by then.
Talk to ya later.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.